becoming friends with...

welcome to the most podcast where everything is great. you are welcome here!! episodes drop on random thursdays, so get yer heart right, catch up or revisit EVERY episode, and check out https://bit.ly/m/becomefriendswiththepod for all sorts of fun. we love you!!
becoming friends with... is a funny, heartfelt, and slightly hazy longform podcast where four longtime friends—and delightfully weathered stoners—meander through the cosmic maze of adult friendship while gently dismantling macho nonsense and redefining manhood, one laughably profound tangent at a time.
Each episode dives headfirst into everything from spaced shower thoughts to deep chats about movies, music, and masculinity. The first half? A delightfully chaotic, free-roaming conversation that pinballs between topics like late-night snacks, dad feelings, and philosophical detours. The second half? A deep-dive into a favorite film, band, or album that gets way more thoughtful than you’d expect from guys this high.
With recurring segments like “Coffee Songs”, “Hi, Thoughts”, “Tales of Video Library”, and hilarious hijinks involving weird AI-generated images, becoming friends with... is part nostalgia trip, part emotional check-in, and all good vibes.
Whether you’re here to laugh, reflect, or just feel a little more connected, this is the podcast for dudes who cry at movies and laugh at fart jokes—and everyone who loves them.
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friendship. music. movies. dig it. we’d love it if you’d join us.
Episodes
Episodes



Thursday Nov 06, 2025
becoming friends with...halloween iii: season of the witch
Thursday Nov 06, 2025
Thursday Nov 06, 2025
what a funny joke for the children, it’s the return of becoming friends with…
on this episode we start a series of three horror films, all the third in their franchise…starting wit the 1982 film halloween iii: season of the witch. this little oddity stands out as it is the only one in the franchise that doesn’t center around michael myers, a plan originally conceived by john carpenter himself. the film switched directors two weeks prior to filming but that did little to break the spirit of the foley artists who document every footstep and nipple suck. it’s not one to be missed…the movie or the podcast. we also chat about airline etiquette, get frustrated at the game framed while we play and then continue to play. well hell…stop reading this and start listening to actual pod. and tell everyone you know. have a great day….we love you!!



Thursday Sep 18, 2025
becoming friends with...the wraith (1986)
Thursday Sep 18, 2025
Thursday Sep 18, 2025
becoming friends with…the wraith (1986)
every time you listen to this podcast, a wraith loses another metal brace. what a thrill to be alive. join everyone’s favorite guys that talk into mics as they discuss the 1986 independent action-fantasy film the wraith. this movie is all over the place, but not nearly as much as the topics discussed in the first segment. everything from a maga christian rapper named angry abe, feelings on buffets in a post-pandemic world, colloidal silver and how only the smartest people are drinking it and dinosaurs. you won’t be believing your ears when you are listening.



Thursday Sep 11, 2025
becoming friends with...remo williams
Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Thursday Sep 11, 2025
Did you ever watch that movie with Fred Ward called Remo Williams: The Adventure Begins? Good for you. So did we AND we recorded us talking about it so you don’t have to.
That’s right, america’s only podcast is back and talking more meathead movies. This go around, they’re steeped in racism watching Joel Grey pull an Emma Stone four decades before that was even a thing. Isn’t science amazing? This bonkers movie is celebrating 40 years of questionable (and some just wrong) decisions. So, we are just the silly boys to talk about it.
We also talk about a bunch of other stuff, like that band Nelson, remember them? We revisited a few old student films that Rene and Byron made back around the turn of the century. And so much more…it’s more fun than anyone deserves in this economy. Enjoy it and don’t forget to like and subscribe to complete your life.
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Thursday Sep 04, 2025
becoming friends with...dark angel (aka i come in peace)
Thursday Sep 04, 2025
Thursday Sep 04, 2025
flying killer compact discs and plenty of confusion
Listen up, space cadets! This episode of Becoming Friends with... is a real trip. The aging-stoner crew fires up some high-minded chatter in the first segment, debating a confusing photo of MC Hammer and George Michael that's almost as wild as a lightbulb-shaped head. It's a journey, man.
The main event features the Dolph Lundgren classic, Dark Angel (aka I Come in Peace). The plot involves an alien-cop partnership to take down an intergalactic brain-harvesting drug dealer.
The group deconstructs this cinematic artifact through the hazy lens of modern masculinity. They reveal hidden truths and offer insightful, if not slightly off-kilter, observations. So, tune in because you won't want to miss this head trip.



Thursday Aug 28, 2025
becoming friends with...cobra
Thursday Aug 28, 2025
Thursday Aug 28, 2025
This week on becoming friends with… the crew sparks up another installment of their “Meathead Movie” saga — and this time, it’s Sylvester Stallone’s Cobra. What starts as random, smoke-hazed chatter about farts, guitars, and accidentally mixing up Spider-Man with Superman, slowly morphs into a surprisingly sharp (and hilarious) takedown of 80s macho cinema.
The gang of aging stoners dissect every growled one-liner, every gratuitous action shot, and even the idea of what it means to be “hard” when you’re just a bunch of dudes getting softer, funnier, and more self-aware with time. Think less testosterone-fueled gun smoke, more late-night dorm room haze with friends who can’t stop laughing at their own jokes — but also find real meaning in the chaos.
If you’ve ever wondered what happens when old-school tough-guy movies get passed through the filter of modern masculinity, good weed, and too much free time, this is the episode that’ll make you pause, chuckle, and lean in.



Thursday Aug 21, 2025
becoming friends with...double impact
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Double the Muscle, Double the Mellow, Double the Damme
This week, the smoke is thick, the takes are wild, and the vibes are loose. The crew continues their hazy cinematic pilgrimage through the world of Meathead Movies — those big, sweaty, overly macho classics that beg to be reexamined through the eyes of modern, aging stoners with more nuance than protein powder. This time it’s Jean-Claude Van Damme’s double-dose of denim and rou ndhouse kicks: Double Impact.
In true bfw… fashion, the episode drifts from chaotic chatter (video game mishaps, forgotten snacks, and stoner logic tangents that only make sense if you’re a little lit) into a surprisingly sharp deconstruction of what “tough guy” masculinity meant in the ’90s — and how it hits different when you’ve got a joint in one hand and a few decades of hindsight in the other.
It’s funny, it’s meandering, it’s unexpectedly thoughtful. One minute they’re debating the logistics of fighting your own twin, the next they’re giggling about who would win in a brawl: Van Damme or a Costco rotisserie chicken.
Light one up, lean back, and press play. This isn’t just a movie breakdown — it’s a clouded, hilarious meditation on muscles, masculinity, and mellowing out with friends.



Thursday Aug 14, 2025
becoming friends with...cyborg
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Meathead Movies and Midlife Musings
This week, everyone's favorite podcast pals light one up and dive into the gloriously sweaty, post-apocalyptic fever dream that is Cyborg — the second entry in the “Meathead Movies” series, where they take the most protein-soaked, testosterone-dripping films of yesteryear and crack them open to reveal surprisingly tender truths about modern masculinity.
But before the cinematic deconstruction begins, you have front-row seats to the chaos: birthday shoutouts, Garth Brooks alter-egos, inexplicable tangents, and enough giggle fits to make you wonder if someone passed the other mic around. You know, the rolled up kind.
Then, once the haze clears (or thickens, depending on how you roll), they get into Cyborg — not just the plot, but the strange poetry of roundhouse kicks, the vulnerability hiding under all that sweat, and why even aging stoners can still learn something from a dude with a mullet and a mission. Or unlearn.
Come for the jokes, stay for the deep cuts… and maybe grab a snack first. You’re gonna get the munchies.



Thursday Aug 07, 2025
becoming friends with...under siege 2: dark territory
Thursday Aug 07, 2025
Thursday Aug 07, 2025
becoming friends with…Under Siege 2 (Meathead Movies Vol. 1)
The boys kick off their new Meathead Movies series by getting spiritually and chemically aligned with Under Siege 2: Dark Territory, a 90s action flick where Steven Seagal plays a deadly chef (again) on a runaway train (also again?) And also why?
Before that cinematic train leaves the station, there’s some classic detoured nonsense: confusing lighting rituals, misremembered movie plots, accidental pooping, a rogue polycule that started in the fireplace, and a lot of mid-sentence disappearing. It’s half tech support, half therapy session—fully chaotic.
Then it kinda becomes a movie podcast…the boys unpack what these absurdly macho movies say about masculinity, memory, and why some things hit different when you're older, softer, and...uh, foggier? And then there’s the touching recollection of seeing this movie in a theater with a junior high sweetheart…but most notably, not watching it. Things spiral from there.
Equal parts stoned ramble, heartfelt reflection, and unhinged Seagal analysis. All aboard this smoky train.







